Call for advice
Okay, so I have a lady-issue that I am hoping someone on here can give some advice on. Obviously, I am overweight. My chest is not gigantic, but about a C1/2 cup. Anyway, lately I am finding that I often can see the shape of my nipples in the mirror (between the mirror and my chest is a shirt-never anywhere near sheer, an undershirt, and a bra that is actually pretty darn thick). What is the deal? So, I do a lot of presentations at work and keep thinking “they are out there” and that people are staring. I feel like I am talking away and all anyone can hear is, “Look at us! Look down here at us!” like that stain commercial.
Anyway, I was looking online last night and found recommendations of stuffing with toilet paper and using bandages. I know toilet paper will not do much good, at least for me. So, I tried the bandages today. I used the big ones like for skinned knees and head wounds? (I originally bought them by mistake, thinking they were normal size.) Anyway, other than making my unclothed reflection look like some freaky horror movie where the killer sews skin onto people or something, it seemed to work pretty well but then tonight I noticed it again. Blah. Why are they so stubborn and trying to break through so many layers? What do they want? Anyone else have any ideas they have used?
Hey, you’re doing everything you can… it’s not like you’re going braless with the intent of getting strange men to stare at you. lol
It’s probably not as bad as you think it is, or someone probably would have commented on it. (Are you cold?)
I don’t mean to joke about this-it’s obviously causing you some stress. I just think… it’s your body! There’s nothing gross or abnormal about it. Just do the best you can and go with it.